Tired of chasing clients who don’t get you? Here’s what helped me
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I used to spend hours writing posts, updating my bio, and tweaking my offer — only to hear crickets.
It wasn’t that my work wasn’t good. In fact, my clients loved it once we started working together. But getting them to find me — and recognize themselves in my words — felt impossible.
I’d post something heartfelt on Instagram, and get a few kind emojis… but no bookings. I'd explain my services in a webinar, only to get blank stares or “I need to think about it.”
The truth?
I was trying to speak to everyone, and ended up reaching no one.
The more I tried to make my message “universal,” the more it got watered down. People didn’t see themselves in my words — because I wasn’t clear enough on who I was really talking to.
And worst of all?
I felt invisible. Like I was doing “all the things,” but never quite breaking through.
If you feel the same, this next part might help.
What changed everything for me
I stopped guessing.
Instead, I sat down and created a clear customer profile — someone I actually wanted to work with. I used the Customer StarMap™ and answered questions I had always skipped.
Once I knew who I was really talking to,
- my content got easier to write
- my message got clearer
- and the right people started showing up
Not overnight. But quickly enough that I knew I was finally on the right track.
If you’re also tired of chasing clients who never truly “get” your offer…
📌 You might like this too:
- Feel invisible online? This helped the right people finally find me
- I stopped hiding — here’s how clarity made me feel legit
- Marketing without the ick: how I found my own voice
And if you’re ready to make your message actually land — without burning out — check out the Customer StarMap™.
It gave me the clarity to finally stop wasting energy and start connecting.
