Feel invisible online? This helped the right people finally find me
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I used to wonder if people were even seeing what I posted.
I’d show up. I’d share helpful tips. I’d write from the heart.
And still, the only people who responded were… my cousin, a few fellow coaches, and that one nice person who always leaves a 🌸 emoji.
It felt like shouting into the void — and getting a gentle echo back that said: “cute post!”
But never “Where can I book?”
I thought maybe I needed to post more. Or show more behind-the-scenes. Or maybe do that Reels trend everyone’s doing (spoiler: I tried, it flopped).
Then I realized something big:
👉 Visibility doesn’t matter if you're invisible to the right people.
I wasn’t being ignored.
I was being unclear.
The people I really wanted to reach — those thoughtful, soul-searching, ready-for-change clients — couldn’t see themselves in my content.
So what changed?
I did one simple thing:
I sat down and clarified who I was really speaking to.
Using the Customer StarMap™ Power Workshop, I mapped out my dream client’s world. Their values. Their stuck points. Their actual words.
Once I started shaping my posts for them (not for everyone), things shifted fast:
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My DMs started getting real inquiries
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I stopped second-guessing every sentence
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The right people started responding with, “This is exactly what I needed to hear.”
No more guesswork.
No more playing it safe.
Just clear, authentic communication — to the people who truly needed it.
If you’ve ever felt invisible, maybe it’s not about doing more.
Maybe it’s about getting clearer.
Here are a few things that helped me personally:
✨ And if you’re ready to step out of invisibility and into clarity —
The Customer StarMap™ Power Workshop was the tool that helped me stop feeling small and start sounding like me.
You don’t need to shout louder.
You just need to speak to the right people.
