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Stop guessing: How to map your ideal customer

You don’t need to be psychic.
You just need a map.

If your messaging feels scattered, inconsistent, or like you’re constantly guessing what to say — this one’s for you.

Because here’s the hard truth:

💥 Without customer clarity, everything else is just guessing.
Content? Guess.
Offers? Guess.
Marketing? Also a guess.


The Good News? You’re One Shift Away from Total Alignment

All it takes is knowing exactly:

  • Who you’re talking to
  • What they care about
  • What they’re struggling with
  • And how your offer fits into their story (not just yours)

Why Most “Personas” Don’t Work

You’ve probably seen those template personas before:

“Meet Sarah. She’s 38, drives a Volvo, drinks almond milk, and enjoys scented candles…”

Cool. But useless.

What you need isn’t demographics.
You need psychographics — the emotions, thoughts, fears, and desires that actually drive decisions.

🧠 Related: The #1 reason people ignore your offer
🎯 Also check out: Your story isn’t the point — here’s what is


Let’s Map This — Right Now

Here’s a simple framework to sketch your ideal customer in 5 minutes:

1. What’s frustrating them today?
Be specific. What’s the “ugh” moment?

2. What do they dream of instead?
What would make them feel proud, relieved, confident?

3. What’s getting in the way?
What’s the voice in their head saying?

4. What do they think they need?
Not necessarily what they really need — what they’re asking for.

5. What makes them say yes?
What words or feelings flip the switch?

Write it all down. Then test your message against that map.
If it doesn’t speak to those things, it’s probably not working.


Bonus Move: Build Messaging From the Persona — Not the Other Way Around

Once you have your persona map, you’ll:

✨ Know what to say
✨ Know what to offer
✨ Know what makes your ideal client choose you over the next tab

And guess what? You don’t have to build it alone.

🎯 Use the Customer StarMap™ Power Workshop to go from guessing → grounded clarity in 10 minutes flat.
No agency. No fluff. No fake personas.


Keep Exploring:

👀 The #1 reason people ignore your offer

💬 Make your message feel personal — even at scale

📚 Your story isn't the point — here's what is

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